Do We Fight? Or Do We Quit?

     Life, isn't all that easy as you think it would be. Life doesn't give you just one option to choose from, it doesn't give you only one problem to face. Life doesn't give you just one answer for every questions you have.

     Life doesn't give you one particular weather to face. We have four, summer authum, winter, and spring and it comes around, goes around. And when each weather changes from one to the other, life doesn't just stop there, it just keeps moving on, even if you have to stop.

     We face many problems, many challenges in life. Each soul has their own different challenges to face. We go to our friends that we think we could trust. We go to our families who said they are always there for support and help. We go to the ones that we love knowing that they would not leave us alone to be lost in this big big world.

     Sometimes we place high hopes in our families and friends to bring us back to the right track. But there are times that when we share our problems, we expect them to understand our situation. Yet disapointment sets in. Sometimes we are even scare of sharing our problems to the other. Questions of doubtness and fear sets in our head. We feel like running, running to a place that no one would find us. Most of the times we fill that the problem is too big and we just don't know what to do. Too scare of making decisions that might be the bad one instead of a good decision.

     So in the end, we run or give up fighting. We stop kicking for a fresh air when we know that we might drown in the icy cold water. We just got so lost, wanting all of it to just stop moving, to just leave us alone. In the end, we just stop breathing, we stop our will to live, we stop our life.

     I used to think, that people who give up are just people who are too weak to face challenges. But now i know, they are just being humans. We, are all humans. Not a single one of us could say that we never have the thought of losing it, to give up, to put everything down and just step back. We all have that idea, to give up. But what make the thought worst is that we actually give up.

     Our mother had never give up on us when we are always crying for food and they are not really sure of what we are crying for. And that just makes us not having any rights to give up on ourselves. Everyone needs someone or something for us to hold on and pull ourselves together through every challenges. Most of the time we just need people we could trust to push us to the finishing line.

     Having the thought to give up isn't a bad thing. Like I said, the bad part is that we give up, not finishing the races and not getting to see what is on the other side of the line.

     So, my advice is, don't give up even if things are starting to seem scary and impossible. Couse you would only be letting people who love you down, and most of all you will let yourself down.