"To Love And Be Loved In Return"

  "To love and be loved in return", isn't this what all of us believed in till now? The hope of finding someone to love in and hopefully they love you back the same way.

     Love, is not as easy as one would imagine it to be. A young girl's imagination is to find a guy that would love her back and take care of her. With that guy being a Prince Charming none the less, married, have children, grow old and live happily ever after.
But for a woman, whom one is having a career, would see love as having someone to talk to, someone that could keep themcompany , to have sex, to go on a date with, to shout and argue with. Someone who would make a woman both happy and scared. And for the guys, some of them... I say again SOME, do not know about love, to begin with. But I guess they know that sex and love is not the same thing. You could have sex with a person but still not loving them. But if you get to ask a guy who have a girlfriend and ask him why he would love her, he would reply saying "Idon't really know, she is just kind, sweet and friendly." That is all that he could give you.

     Are you kidding me? I mean, come on! You love this one girl and you don't even know why? Tell you guys something, try spending some quiet quality time alone and you would start imagining the love of your life rightin front of you, doing things that you like such as making breakfast for you or serving coffee for you. That's the time you would start figuring out what you like about them the most and what makes you think that you cant spent the rest of you life without. On the other hand, if you ask a girl, it would be totally different answer. She could tell you all the things she like about that guy from morning till night. She would even talk about him none stop that you feel like your going to be sick.

     Many girls do not ask their man about why they love them. Maybe it is because they are shy or they do not want the man to think that she is doubting his love for her. But in reality, girls prefer to know what makes him love her. It gives her a sense of security about their relationship, that he is not fooling around and hurting her in the end.

     You see, love, is not something as easy to understand as the word in the dictionary. It is not just the feeling, or spending more time. It has more meaning to it like a mother would love her children. The kind of expression you see on the mother's eyes when she is holding her new born child. Love is a mature thing, you need caring, understanding, patience, truth, kindness, forgiveness, tolerance and not anger,lies, hatred or revenge.

     Many people these days say that they love each other. But at times you could see in their actions that they do not feel as to what they have said. If you really love them, the people around you could tell easily that you love someone without you telling it out.. Just watching your actions is enough to tell everything. It is like "apicture says a thousand words", in this case it should be "actions speaks truth".

     Many times in many different cases, we get unreturned love. We love someone whom we knew would not love us back the same way we love them. At times, we secretly love our friends, and hoping that they might have the same feeling for us. But before we even get to that big confession, they hurt us without even knowing it by saying that we are just friends, that we would never date each other, that we are just like brothers and sisters to them. That is the time we learn that wedon't stand a chance to be with them in ways like couple do. Although we have the love for them, yet we always give way to them. We let them to have life they wanted, they get their partners, and we trying to be supportive, wishing them good luck in their life together, hoping that they stay happy, it is just something that I call a "hidden love". A kind of love that people do not understand what kind of love we have for them.

     Love, even for me, I cant say much. Everyone has a different experience about love. Some say that love sucks. Some might even say that love rules the world. We all still need more experience on this love thing that is going on with all of us. Love that we show to people of different level of relationship such as our family, friends, and partners are all different level of love. But we still love them all the same, just that what they share together are different, and it doesn't really matter to anyone. As long as everyone is being love, it is fair enough. Everyone desires it. LOVE. No one can really survive in this world without at least being love by their parents.

     So, love everyone as much as you can. Do not keep your anger, revenge, hatred blocking the love you got from the world. There are nothing good but love. It keeps the good memories following into ones life.