Relationship in a CRISIS

Time has change, many things have advances to our own benefits. The advantage of computers, ipod, iphone, slim tv set and many more were created by us humans. It makes us able to have control on our environment, to use the availlable sources to create things that are of use to us.

But out of all the things we could do, there is something that we cant control. Which is a healthy relationship.

From the begining of this year, many relationship have ended up in a separate way. Leaving each other to go their own desirable ways of their life. Maybe its a good thing about separations, you could learn to be strong, to stand up after each fall you receive, to be able to move on quickly. Broken relationship isnt so bad after all ex could still be your best friend in life even if they might belong to someone else.

As for me, I'm now am being a single. Even though i love him, i still cant be with him no matter how much i want to be with him. Knowing that he is engage to another lady, i still take care of him as much as i can do for him. But some advice me to move on and not hang onto him with a thin piece of thread.

Well, my advice is, even if your relationship is broken up, just see it as a lesson so that you could know what to expect and how to care more fore spouse.

I hope that you guys out that have a happy healthy relationship forever.

Life Journey

For years that i have live my life, this life, I have lived it boldly, arrogantly and full of stubborness. But not soo long ago that i have open my eyes to something new, something that i daringly called it life.

Seeing this whole new life with my eyes wide opened did I only notice that this is my life. A life in which I may only be granted to live only once. A life where I will not only live once, but as well as die once, fall in love once and hopefully married once. Yes, a marriage should only be just once, so that makes us to choose our decision on who we want to spend the rest of our life with more carefully.

A life that can only live once must have a journey, for there is no life without a journey and no journey without life. For every moment of my life that i have left, no doubt there will be obsticles, but life must go on. And even if I were to head on with life, I would never give in to the chances of losing any wanderful moments that i had made with my family, friends, teachers as well as strangers who had lighted up my days just as they were passing by.

For this is a journey of life, and there shall always be different road to journey on the lives.

Habibi

My love one, why do you always smoke? What is so nice to smoke? Even if I ask you to smoke one every two hours you would still not do it. Why? Now, I have given up of asking you to try to smoke less, but you dont really care what i say do you. If only you know how i feel about you smoking...
Now, i dont care anymore. You want to continue smoking, then go ahead. I wont stop you. Since you dont know how hurtful it is to my chest when you smoke...Its ok, i dont really have to tell you why i cry, or feel sad anyway...You had even say to me that you would stop smoking this sem, and you forget it. I wonder if one day you would even forget me...

Friends for Life

Friends? What are they? Who are they? Why do they seem so important to us in our life? Well, if you dont know the meaning of FRIENDS, then take some time off and get a stroll out in the sreet. No matter which turn you take, you would be looking at people who are talking happily with their companions. You might even find that there are girls group that will hold each other's hand while walking and talking. You may even see many people being with the same people that they have been more than a dozen times. Now, could you see the closeness of that relationship? Relationship doesnt mean that it is only for couples and all. It means of the bondness one have with another, no matter if it is only friends, family, or loved ones, its just all around us.

Friends are those who are always there to help you. They are always by your side, waiting to lend a hand when ever possible. Sometimes, you could even share almost anything with them, such as a drak secreat that you rather hide from your parents. I myself have many friends that i consider to have a good relationship with. Having such kind good friends after only finishing half of the first sem, i feel that im soo blessed. In my whole life never had i feel that there are someone i could share my stories with.

Not like a cinderella story

18 years in my life, never have I thought that i would find love again. Every where that i go, I see many Cinderella with there Prince Charming, ether they are holding each other hands or hugging each other in their arms tightly as though they would never let go of their love ones. To them, letting go is like ending the story of Cinderella a little too early. I never really understand why is it like that for them? Does every lovely couple feels the same? i never know till now. After losing my first love, a love that i had never had any moments to feel, i thought that I, a normal and simple girl would ever find love again. Now as I am in the world of the University life, I finally met someone who cares and wants me to be with him forever, even after death. How happy everytime i feel when i am with him. And after only a month, i finally understood how it would feel like to be scare of losing the one that you love most, the one that meant everything in your life, the one that would make you happy. Right now, all that i care is my time that i spent with him. Everytime, i cant help that the time for him to be far far away from me keeps getting nearer and nearer. Oh how i wish that we could be together forever not including the time in heaven. What a very happy ending it would be...